Is my girlfriend only attracted to my body and just want ?

I am 23 years old woman in a relationship with a 40 yr old (butch). Lately, I am craving for emotional bonding and friendship from her and all she does is jumping on me for . Whenever we meet, we r most of the time making out or making love. Initially, it used to make me feel desirable. But now I think, we should connect emotionally as well. Even when we are having a conversation, she is always touching me or me somewhere. I am also attracted to her, but I want something beyond physical love as well. I dont know what to do.