Is it really a surprise to so many anti-feminists and MRAs that society doesn't take them seriously...?

when, instead of respectfully and rationally expressing their sociopolitical viewpoints, their idea of counteracting feminists is by calling them s, cvnts, man-haters, and fat s? If you don't even know why you hold your stances, don't be surprised when no one accepts them either. Almost every time I've posted a question asking why some ist phenomenon exists in society, I've gotten a whole lot of responses that looked something to the effect of "Who let you out of the kitchen, cvnt?" and "Shut the fvck up stupid whining feminist . Real women don't have a problem with men like you" (whatever that means)...not to mention the messages I've recieved from MRA's telling me they hoped I got ra-ped. If you can't articulate a logical reason for feeling the way you do on an issue, then maybe there isn't one. Could this be why feminists are so influential in government whereas MRA's really aren't? Posting distasteful images of women on MRA forums and ranting about how women are bitter cvnts who deserve to be gang ra-ped doesn't tend to impress politicians. Just saying-not all MRA's are like this, but a LOT of the ones I've encountered, both online and off, are...it's not a very effective approach.